Welcome today fix. Yesterday you did your role play, you've addressed your weaknesses and your sabotages. Today we're addressing sacrifices over givers and money worship. Now, sacrifice and over givers, women are coded to be that very thing you are. That's your role. That's who you are.

You're not a good person. If you're not like caring, giving, nurturing, it's how society sees you. So, women often over do it. And very religious people tend to do it a lot more European cultures tend to do this over give over sacrifices. the norm. The norm is my life is for my children.

And then It's just give every moment thinking about the children and then when the children grow up, it's every moment thinking about the grandchildren. When you do that, you you overdo it when you over give and over sacrifice. You don't follow what you want. You don't nurture yourself. You're you think that you'll feel good when NATO good and that that can become you become normal for you because some people will go, Oh, I'm happy when they're happy. You need to be more independent.

And women need to take a look at their life and take a look how they're programmed to over give. The reason why women tend to over give is because they have less self worth. And they don't pay themselves as much so they think well if I give and if I do something, and if I help someone, I will build up my self worth. Now don't get me wrong. We are here to assist other people. We are here.

To serve and an over giving or helping, can work to an advantage depending on what area you do it in. I used to over give, were in healing, I would do things to healing for nothing, I would go and help out at expos I would just give myself but you know what? I didn't mind it because I learned so much. So it built my confidence and built my experience when I was doing all the healing stuff I had over given though in relationships, you know, in partnerships in my house, my previous relationships over gave, and it doesn't do you any good because then what you're doing is devaluing yourself, you devalue energy, your energy gets taken, you feel worse because you don't feel vibrating and passionate, so that exudes a great energy to pull in abundance. Your vibration gets lower when you you've given too much and some people Fight me on this and but in the end when they get to the end of their life and then they look at it and then they'll go, Well, maybe I wouldn't have given so much because you know, I've lived half a life and I've met people where mothers have been empowered and basically they've just been amazing empowered role model for their children.

Their children go you know what I'm important because my mom said she was important and she spent time on herself. And if you've read my book freemium love Gil, I wrote a bad girl called one of my school friends called Melissa and she was so grounded and she attracted abundance that she attracted good things she always did. She chose all the right things the right husband, the right jobs, that actually gave her pleasure that took her around the world and a guy that was you know, abundant and that was, you know, great dad and all these kind of things because, as she grew up, she said, My mom always valued herself and she would have been considered selfish, because she kind of made herself a priority. And Wallah, there's Melissa. Lissa doesn't need therapy because she's flying. She's going to France, you know, next week, she's here, she's there, she's skiing, she's in the sun, she's in Bali.

So we have this belief system about what we should do and what we shouldn't do. And whether we're good or whether we're bad and what our mindset that needs to stop over when you over give, then you've given away your energy for nothing. And there'll be you have mindset about your worth. So this is where you've got to start really taking a good hard look at way of over given and you'll get uncomfortable when you start not over giving because you're set a belief about that's your role. That's what you do. And if you pull back and go, No, or I don't want that anymore, or I'm not doing that anymore.

I knew what to help you. Get on comfortable, well good time to get uncomfortable. Because you lack money, it just goes hand in hand. Now money worship is when someone says, oh, when I went to Florida, I will be happy kind of thing, oh, when I get this and when I get that, well, this, the universal laws, so then what you think then you shall create. So it's like, oh, when I get it, so then I'm not happy and I don't have it. So I have to wait.

The universe will make you wait, because that's the very vibration, you actually have to feel already abundant, which was where we're moving to each day, you'll move through a different phase to address I can't give it everything to you all in one day. We address one issue at a time as we go through this week. So you've got to get rid of all when I have this and when we have that you've got to stop being a worshipper of the powers outside of you. And you know, and also Yeah, you You place too much. I would say that if you're over spender and you're you're grabbing outward and you're thinking you like to buy new outfits and stuff like that, that fills you up. I'm not saying anything's wrong with that.

But if that fills you up and makes you feel better in the moment and then after a while it wears off then that sort of an addiction that you might need to look at as well you might you're you're you're fragmented and not whole inside but this process is part of getting your whole there's so much to abundance that you need to be start looking at all of yourself, healing yourself. As I said, it takes a long time. So you can fill out exercise six, list your thoughts and beliefs and behaviors on over giving or money worship. Write down how you do these things. And you can you can keep this list going throughout the 30 days and to remind you what you are doing both This is reminding you go, Oh, I just did that. I'm thinking, you know, like it just reminds you instead of going in automatic, where you are putting the energy on what are your blocks in your finances, because if you have these two these will be your blocks.

There is no wealthy person will sacrifice his money his time, his business. He won't do it because it's it's a mindset he'll go No, my my energy, my business my time what I do is the value I'm not giving her away nearly pilly and whatever. It's not a mindset of a millionaire. How do I help everybody? How do I you know, your mind is Oh, hell Who can I help way where are they Where's people I can help. That's not the mindset of a unless of course, unless you get paid till that's fine.

We give for free. All right. So take note of that. Fill out that form and keep it in the back your mind throughout the day throughout the next 30 days and have a blessed, abundant, prosperous day and I'll see you tomorrow. Take care