So how can you find an activity that you can do together? Because let's say that you have met some people. And now you would like to see them again. So what you can use is, for example, if you have found a commonality activity, let's say that, for example, you both like playing tennis, why don't you go and play tennis? If for example, you both like going out to bars and clubs, go out to bars and clubs. If you both like drinking kpd Yes, go and drink a beer.
Yes. So find the take the activity that you have in common, and do that again. So it has to be a public place. Because don't don't say, Hey, would you like to do yoga with me as my whole? No, like, it doesn't have to be creepy. in a public place.
It's It's better if you go with someone from the same sex or from the opposite sex go to a public place first. And it has to be something that the person doesn't have to invest on. A lot of energy, time or money in it, because they don't really know you. So just by by saying, Hey, would you like to hang out with me and do this activity, it's already a big step for them. So try to make something appealing for them. Something that the reader like.
The other, the other way to find something that you can do together is to just talk about something that you like, or talk about something that the other person likes doing, and then do it with them. It means that if I'm interacting with you, and then you just talk about great bar that you know, a great restaurant a great place to to eat sushi. I will just talk a little bit about that. And then at the end when I will be extending contact information and say, hey, yeah, this was really nice meeting you. I remember that you told me that there was an amazing place where we could eat amazing sushi I would recommend it to hang out someday there and and get it can show me the place? Oh, yeah, sure.
And then you have something that you can do. So it's about finding an activity that you can do together that you both like doing. Or you can just do something that they like doing or do something that you like doing. Okay? It's just about asking and doing something in a public place. And if the person likes you, and the person said, hey, maybe this can be a great friend that will come with you and they will do the activity.
If you don't really know what to do when you're interacting with people just exchange numbers, and think later about what you can do. But I don't really encourage you. To do that I it's easier if you just exchange numbers. And then you talk about what you can do next and about the the following of the relationship. It's easier if you have something to do when you are exchanging numbers. The numbers will be more solid Okay.
The other great way is to have for example, a weekly activity. If every Friday night you go to a bar, or every Saturday you go to, you go and you do an activity with your friends, and you meet a new person, you can invite them and you say, hey, on Friday night, I'm going out with my friends on Saturday and playing laser tag. On Sunday. We are meeting at this cafe and we are discussing books would you like to come? So you can also have weekly activities that you have with your friends, and then you can invite other people to join you.