So now let's talk about how you can add value to people. So you can add value people with what you say, and with your energy. Let's start with what you say. You can give advice you can give an opinion, you can share a piece of information that would benefit the other person. So let's say that for example, you're interacting with someone in the bar. And they tell you that for example, they love kpd.

Yes. Which is, which is an amazing cocktail. You can you could tell them if you know a great place to drink a pin, yes. You could just say, Oh, you know, there is this bind down whether amazing KPS or if, for example, the person tells you that they are looking for new gym, you can just say Oh, I know this gym that is really great. Always try to help people with what you see. And always have these I'm giving value to the other person mindset is that really helps you when you're interacting with people.

Because adding value to interactions is what will set you apart, and what will create healthy relationships. Because most people they don't. They don't add value to people that are just there. They may be asked questions, and they don't really care if they add value. They're just like being there and you don't really know what they're doing. But what I would like you to do is really ask questions, and I would say ask questions to get information, so that then you can give value to them.

So for example, I met a fitness coach two months ago, and I interacted with him and he said that he was looking for a new place to stay here and Roseanne, say, Oh, I know. I know. This friend that has that has a flat rent, and then I connect with people with him. And then he was able to find a flat or for example, if there is Someone that says, oh, today I'm just looking for a great place to eat sushi. Or just say, Oh, you know, in town there is this amazing place. Or I will also compliment someone.

I will say, Hey, I really liked your shirt. I really like how open minded you are. Thank you very much. I will say please and thank you all the time, I will compliment someone on the behavior, the conference, I will, you know, I would just be myself because this is who I am. I developed myself into someone who likes giving compliments to people as long as they are genuine, okay? I'm not saying just add value to people by giving compliments and you don't mean don't do that.

But I'm, I'm open and I love giving compliments. So it's one way that I give value to people. The other one is through advice, information. And I always try to help people and to really solve their issues. But not it I would say in a more like a light way or just by giving one piece of information. It means that if someone says, Oh, you know what?

I have this problem homeless, hey, maybe you should read this book, it can be really great. I won't say oh, what are the seven steps to fix your issue? I won't say that. I'll just say, I knew this video that is created can maybe help you or I know this book or I know this person he here is the cards will always try to connect people and to add value, add value to their lives. The second way that you can add value to people's life is by nonverbal, it means that it's the emotions that you have. So again, focus on what you feel, rather than what you say.

If you're always negative and depressed all the time. It will be difficult for you to become socially successful. You must take care of how you feel first, in order to add value to people. So how can you feel this Straight emotions, you just focus on a great memory that you had, and you feel his emotion. So I've already done that in other videos in the previous videos. So if you would like me to meet, walk through all the steps, just watch the other videos where I showed you.

So it's in the previous videos that I showed you exactly how you can really access this positive emotion. But if you don't know where to find it, let me recap it really quickly here. You just close your eyes. And then you remember a happy memory a positive memory and you imagine that you are the actor and you relieve the scene, you believe the memory and then you will start feeling these positive emotions and I would like you to amplify them through your body. And now you are ready to approach people because you have this positive emotion. The more you do it, the faster you will be able to access these positive emotion and when you will be in directing people, I can in a few seconds, go from someone who is positive to someone who is depressed.

Why? Because I know how to do it. And the more you do it, the more you get used to accessing these positive emotions, the easier it will be for you when you approach people