Hello everyone in this module we will talk more details of an interview. Before entering the organization for interfere. before the interview, there are two reminders for you. Number one, appearance number two a power pose. For occurrence we have mentioned people judge out of it adjusting to classify the person is in the same group or not. Therefore, use your appearance to show your friendliness.
If the employer is likely to wear a shirt, you were distinct coding just like them. interviewers upon to wearing a T shirt, you could go for casual look for the power pose to 10 or more minutes before you step out of your house. To prepare yourself with competence inside out. When you arrived at the organization use the Modify power pose, head up and shore down to Maintain your assertiveness please remember Be mindful of your power pose all the time because some people are quickly shift to a low competence posture with nervous when they see other competitors. In other words, you could either incompetence they or a stressful state. First impression.
Anytime you start anyone including the receptionist, use five body language we have learned in session two to make a tremendous great first impression. Number one, smile number two has up and shoulder relaxed. Number three, eye contact number four, expose hand. Number five confidence steps. Maintain your positive body language whenever you are in the elevator or waiting area until you miss someone to shake the hand then you can move on to the stage of building connections, make connections. Remember, a professional handshake is equivalent to three hours of face to face communication.
Therefore, use the handshake to build connections after a handshake, choose one person to mirror their nonverbal expressions. This is an important part. So just not to muting everyone for just 1020 or 30 seconds. choose only one person to match for about 10 minutes to make a real connection. The question is, if the interview has two or more people meeting you, who should you choose to mirror, I would choose the dominant one the leader or the boss because people usually following their decision. At this point, the handshake is my tool to understand who is the dominant person who is the passive follower.
After I decide on the target I would start to build connection by mirroring and matching the when it comes to sitting in a string pray understanding that a magdala will be alert to detect sadness. There are four suggestion for you to choose where and how to sit. Number one, choose the safest spot. If you could choose choose, this is where you could observe the whole room, which is the safest praise for the amygdala. On the other hand, if you don't have a choice and be positioned at a spot where the door is behind, there is a spot easily to put you in a fight or face situation because you will continuously where we want things in the back. In this case, be more mindful of your power pose.
Use it at all times. Number to it all the way back off the chair. Sit All the way back or third four of the chair that could help you to maintain power pose with your head up and relax shoulders. Number three, avoid sitting face to face in a line of 180 degrees. Sitting in 180 degrees and facing each other is the position preparing to fight. Therefore ensure to sit in an angle.
Move the chair properly if you could, if you couldn't then move your body alert or bird to create the angle. Number four signal the equality. Human has territory, a taller people could make people feel more powerful by their nature. In that sense, if you're sick in the winter, you could roll up to a higher position at justed that could help you to show your competence. Alright, in the next module, we will continue with the process of a job interview for questions.