Yep, as with everything in life, every habit has a blessing and a curse. The both model defines curses as blind spots, something we do automatically and expect positive result. Yet the response from others is the opposite in those blind spots can easily destroy our careers and personal relationships. What is the top blind spot for the only? Of course, it's a well known selfishness. Interesting fact that in most of the cases, the only children do not recognize that they're perceived by others as being selfish.
So it's well known. Yeah, not for their own list. If your one and only please be mindful about the polling least that you can also find in your both creep. Take a look at this lace and this can save you years of pain. Experience not sharing resources making decisions without others input and not listening as the result can be viewed as arrogant and selfish, experiencing high levels of anxiety when performing due to their highly perfectionist expectations, establishing their own rules of operations without communicating with others and being overly critical and judgmental of others and themselves. One more great example of only is President Barack Obama.
And in his final White House Correspondents, Deena speech, he was joking about his blind spot. Take a look. Eight years ago, I said it was time to change the tone of our politics. In hindsight, I clearly should have been more specific. Also, you might remember that after the 2015 midterm election, Bottom line approval rating was at an all time president solo. When asked him he said, we have good visions.
He is sad, but I did not communicate enough. I did not explain enough. So what is this solution? Let's take from the proven successful business leader jack welch. constant communication is the key to drive change. Leaders go up or down and around the organization to reach people.
They never get bored telling their story. Real communication takes countless hours of eyeball to eyeball back and forth, is you can see the experience people knew that to have a great vision is not enough. If you're one and only please remember, constant communication is their key. Good luck.