In the last exercise, you've hopefully found a lot of stuff that was really cool about you. If you haven't, go back repeat it, I want you to find 10 things 10 Exactly. At least you can do more of course, but at least 10 that you really like about yourself and you're not going to finish until you found those 10 things, written them on a paper put the paper somewhere you can see it and repeated twice a day once in the morning, once in the evening before going to bed. Now, you also might have found stuff that you do not like that much right now. All you Yeah, just don't want to show it or something. Now there's a simple principle for all we do when it comes to styling, moving dressing all of that.

It's love it. Hi, this fake is whatever you love, show to the world right? Make it expressive. Allow the people to see how amazing beautiful and cool you are. Whatever you really don't like and you can hide it. Hide it.

That's totally okay. I, no one forces you to show your body with things you don't like it's totally fine. That's a, that's a case of self protection. Right, I'm surely not going to run around too much naked. I don't mind anymore too much either, but I don't have to provoke it either too much, right. So find something that really is comfortable for you.

And if you feel like running around and oversized clothes, you can totally do so you can also go salsa dancing like this. Whatever feels comfortable for you is the best thing to do. And the third option is fake it. Now there's a lot of videos on YouTube, for example. unconsciously, I love contouring. When I first performed on stage and I had to wear nothing but a ballet treecko, which was a nightmare to me, I figured out how to contour myself more whoops.

So it would look a bit more natural or better or something on stage. I mean, after all on stage, you have to control everything because there's so much light that if you don't use heaps of makeup, you look like a ghost. So one way of faking it is controlling. Another way of faking it is to create a close by diversion. A close by diversion is like when you look at the whole image of the body and you want to hide something, you make the people look at something else instead. So for example, talking about your face, right?

I have very small lips. But I like my eyes and I have very long lashes. You can't see it. Right now because they are blondes but I have very long lashes. So what I would do is I would put on makeup which is very natural on my lips so then not so much in the spotlight but I really emphasize my eyes. So this is creating a diversion whenever somebody looks at me he's not going to look at my lips, but he will look at my eyes and you will stay there for a while and being stick to all that special stuff.

Something I do the same with my body. I don't have many boobs to show or something. But I have quite long legs. So what I do is I usually when these kind of shirts on top, and then I wear shorts. So when people see the whole image, oh, and I wear glittery heels, obviously so when people see me in the hole, they tend to look at my eyes first and then they go down to the legs because my shoes are so cluttery that you look at my feet and Next, and I can do my nice styling with my legs and feel comfortable about it. That is creating a diversion which is a very, very, very good tactic for salsa dancing.

So love it, hide it fake in. Love it and show everything you can because you're beautiful and amazing and I want you to be seen in all of your glory and all of your life in this world. The stuff don't feel comfortable about try to fake it as good as you can. Use contouring use special clothing, use glitter, use whatever you like false lashes, extra here. hats, what may add is not too nice for dancing because it will fall off. But you can do cool stuff with your hair, everything right?

Fake what you can and about the rest hiders as totally okay. Make sure when you go out dancing or You go out and meet someone or you basically in all your life that you always dress and move and behave in a way that you feel comfortable. And once you feel really comfortable about it, you will be confident. And once you're confident the way you are at that moment, you will be sexy. There's nothing as sexy to woman than confidence. So get sexy by getting confident and getting comfortable.