Chapter 3: How to Connect with Everyone and Make New Friends

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Hey Good looking yes, You. You’re looking good, something’s obviously working. Maybe it’s that attractive confidence you’re starting to show.

Now that you’re officially a Chatty Kathy, the kind that people actually want to hang around. You've learned how to start conversations, keep them going and what topics open people up to you. Let’s soar right into improving your connection skills. Yes, your conversations are part of that, but there are a couple of other mind-boggling tools to help you dive even further down the rabbit hole of social connection. Connection starts with conversations but now there’s a couple of extra ‘help-alongs’ to ensure that you really do shine in that situation and build friendships and connections with all those people you choose to.

Look out for how your mirroring and matching the other person can unconsciously build a strong connection between you and your new ‘friend’. It’s so effective it’s actually kinda spooky.

Also, keep an eye out for the point where it says, the easiest way to build a connection is to build similarities, shared interests, and connections with that person. And finally, listen out for the Monkey experiment and what the mirror neuron actually helps human beings with.

After you’ve finished this lesson, you will feel like a supersonic connection master. In fact, you’re going to feel on top of the world since you will make friends with just about anyone. And remember if many people perceive you as a friend, you’re going to get a lot more help and meaningful relationships out of life. Let’s just say that this lesson is going to make you feel invincible.

Why is this chapter important you might ask? Well:

  • If people like you, they will help you, support you, go the extra mile for you, date you, marry you, hire you, promote you, and/or choose your company's contract over someone else’s pure because they like you.
  • Your most meaningful moments come from the relationships you have with people (or animals, but this is not an animal psychology course - who knows - maybe by 2022?) so learning how to better connect with people, will certainly give you more joy and fulfillment.
  • People are more likely to agree with you when they like you (That makes dinner plans and restaurant choices much easier).
  • You’ll be more widely liked.
  • People will seek you out for advice, trust you more emphatically and invite you to more events.
  • You’ll make friends more easily.
  • You will establish your own community much quicker and strong communities have been proven to improve people’s health and help people live longer.
  • You will make more money.

Shew that’s a whole lot of positive factors.

Okay, friend, let’s go.

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