Step 3: About him

Describe what you're looking for in a partner and then phrase it creatively. Avoid saying "I'm looking for a man who" and avoid general, generic descriptors like kind, handsome, funny, charming, adventurous that are often subjective and don’t really connect. Instead, try using visualizations to describe what he's like based on how you like to feel with a man. You can set up a longer profile with the first paragraph or two being "about me" and the last paragraph being "about you" but I would suggest being creative, engaging, interactive throughout. There's no wrong way to do it as long as the tone is positive. Stay away from saying what you "don't want" or talking about negative experiences. A positive, upbeat vibe always wins the day and gets the most engagement. The best profile is one that draws him in right away. It's ok to be creative, quirky, whimsical, unique, clever, or any style that really showcases you in a way that will attract the men who are looking for someone just like you. Be yourself. Love what you and love who you are and let that come through in the words on your profile as well as the pictures you choose, which we'll talk about later in this module.

• Creating a Bumble or Tinder Profile
• Buzzwords gaining traction with men include gym, love, drink, lol, beer, foodie, music, smiling emoji.

Men often go for women who seem fun, cheeky, positive. Quirky, unique, and outside the typical "canned" interests travel, yoga will catch their attention. They garner a lot of their impression about you from your profile pics.

(See "Fun Engaging Interactive Profiles" attachment)