Now, let's move on to chapter six, avoid the biggest mistakes made when using law of attraction. So I'm going to talk through the mistakes that people make in law of attraction. And I'm going to put the jar out the front, you still have the same face from yesterday. There it is. So that you start recognizing that you're programmed a certain way. And you're not looking at the science.

And take note of the things you do, because these will be your weak areas as I start to talk through some of the, the mistakes that you make when using law of attraction. means when you try and create when you try and manifest, right, take some notes because the last exercise is looking where you mess up. One of the things Common. Anyway, I'll go start the list. And I'll talk about each one individually. So I've written a few pages on things that you can do to help yourself.

But I'm not going to go through I have 23 mistakes people make when using law of attraction. Let's start with the first 123 reasons why universal laws don't work. Does anyone have a question that Do you ever say, why is this working? I do everything. Put your hand up if you ever said that. Right.

Right. Put your hand up. You know why they're not working. Do you know why they're not working? You know why? Right?

And then you also wonder why. Why don't they work? Well, I'm going to tell you why. Number one, being unconscious in your thinking and behaviors again 90% of the time you are unconscious. You get in the car, you go to work, you come home, you cook dinner, interact with your family, you're not conscious. Conscious is this.

When you go a better watch how I act. Or watch what I say. I'm aware of myself. There's a few times you can do that, particularly when you are Bruce Lipton talks about this. When you're in love and you're having those first meetings with someone you want to present your best self. So you are showing your best side and he's showing his best side and then after backside.

What was he laughing for? A long, long. Well, that's the whole point. You see, then you start getting comfortable. And then you commit. And then you'd like, flexed and then life it back to life.

And then he goes back to his patterns because he's not conscious. You go back to your patterns, and then you find out what's really inside here. You find out what's inside or like a workshop, more. Some workshops, you have to be aware of what you're saying. There's a little bit in this one, you go Okay, I'll be more aware of how I'm responding because I'm now recognizing I'm not doing everything to get what I want. But you just go into unconscious unconscious will be when you go to with a family with a family member and like they like, you feel that same way about them.

And she you'd be like unconscious with your mom. Hey, he's going out. But yeah, so you're like an unconscious it's just happening. You're not going Hang on a minute What's going on here? How do I respond differently? I got to do a different dance.

When they will no longer you will remember they will go to church to different depths then you break the patterns because keep waltzing with them. You keep dancing the same patterns. But if you're a Chad Chang is breaking up this whole thing going on. Gonna break up all the patterns. That's number one. Number two, not monitoring your self talk.

I've noticed some people say why But it's not what's in the jar that come up here and they've said one thing, but it's not what's in the jar. They're not aware of themselves. You know, and it takes a lot of getting real. And I'm gonna say this, I'll tell you how it's easy to do if you're confused in childhood. You'll be more confused in adulthood. If your mom was in denial, your father was in denial.

You know, people like brushed everything under the carpet or they would confuse you, or they would say they love you, and then beat your something. This really makes you very confused and trained to be in denial. And also, if they did abuse you yet they're nice to you. It messes up this thinking here. And this is why I'm actually quite clear. My mother was always the same.

My father was Always the same. My father was always awful. And I always hated him. So there's no confusion. I don't like you. You don't like me?

You're mean, you're an abuser, clear. My mother. She didn't make excuses for me. She didn't really she didn't sort of she sort of cold it as it is. She didn't stand up for me. So therefore, that was it was just all very clear.

You're always the same. You're in you're kind of like disconnected. She didn't because when mothers start making excuses for you go, oh, look what they did to you. They shouldn't have done that to you. She never did any of that. You know, you shouldn't.

She just was never she never stood up for me. So I always had to be accountable for myself. She always made me pay for anything I did in a way or was always had to look at me when I was right or wrong. So therefore I'm not confused. But I find that when I get people that are confused in their relationships in childhood, they can't they get confused. And going, well, should I love them should like if especially if they were your abuser, if you're abused, you loved your abuse and they were nice to be you, but they still abused you, you get really confused.

So, your self talk is confusing. So this is what you need to do is go What am I saying to myself, right? In this minute, what do I say to myself? When I'm not aware, so I'm actually talking to myself because you know, you talk to yourself all the time. If you actually go look in the mirror and go, what am I saying? What am I saying to that person?

What am I saying, you know, when I feel uncomfortable, my saying, am I good enough? Am I testing? Am I worthy enough? Am I judging myself? You got to be aware, because your self talk keeps on creating that same old pattern just like that girl wrote that thing. I can't heal.

Can't be done. Once you're abused, you're always abused. So that's what she's saying to herself. And when someone comes to me and says, No one can heal me, they can't. No one's been able to heal me and I go, why would it be any different with me? I've got to get you changing that thinking.

And I can't an effect. I think there was somebody. Oh, yeah. And if someone says I don't expect you to get completely healed me and when one guy will you know, disturb be healed in one go, I'm going well, you're restricting the ability of source energy to change and heal. So I'm looking at what everyone keeps like say. And you have to look at what you keep saying because you will keep saying whatever you whatever is not working your life is what you are, keep repeating.

And sure, and if you're conscious and go, I'm going to start a new program. I'm going to start saying something different. I'm going to catch myself aware or I'm going to create affirmations and block out my negative self talk until it changes Remember when I said I choose to love myself thanks for my my love myself. I was canceling out and reprogramming reprogramming myself. So at some point, somehow, all that determination shifts me not protecting your energy. That's a huge one.

Oh, I don't want to hurt their feelings. I don't want to, like not see them, oh, I don't want to block them on Facebook, they might know and then they may not like me. I've got to do it. You know, we there's I see this time and time again. You don't protect your energy because you feel a bit too much about hurting them. rahila said that you said I don't want to hurt them.

We said I don't want to hurt them. You did stop that. I don't want to hurt them. You got to change the thought pattern when you're an enabler and two, you hurt yourself and then you hurt your children if you've got children. So what Change your whole belief system about not hurting somebody. You ask your neighbor, if you want to get it real, you're a neighbor, and you're hurting your energy and you're hurting other people's energy.

Which I struggle with all the time. With the self talking, not hurting other people. Yes. So my belief system now is I people and I have all my life people pleased. And my reasoning for that is to myself, yes, I would never want anyone to hurt. Exactly, exactly.

Obviously. Now, this epiphany is just come to me. Yes. There comes a time when I'm obviously going to have to stop that in order for my pattern to change because if I see somebody hurting, yes, I straightaway. Yes. The rescuer right and have put myself forward no matter what the circumstances.

So am I enabling? Oh, I need to know I need to be told Yeah. Am I enabling the other Get his strategy stuff, don't you worry. Can I get a strap because I'm looking at it now and I'm thinking that I just my, my reasoning for that doing that is I never want anyone to experience Okay, the pain that I had or can I can I add to that for you? Yeah. All right.

So come back here. All right money. Thank you for your great question. So, this is you on a good day, inside of you, is all that pain and all that hurt. So what you do is go I want to heal, I'm crying, I'm dying inside, I'm hurting inside. So you go out and those that hurt will be attracted to because it's like attracts like, and then you try and save them.

And in fact, you're trying to save yourself and when you stop looking at and put Your attention and go in the jar. Gotta hop inside the jar got to heal that, then it never it's just a continual cycle for you. And then you just attract more people to help. That's right. So therefore, Monique, what do you have to do to get the job otherwise you keep doing that same old same old so that's a great question. All right, let's have a look.

Let's see if I could get you Yes, this that loyalty side of me and everything but I and then I look at myself and I'm not being loyal to myself and I don't know how to change it. I know that that's the journey. You have to like face the elephant. You have to be Chris, but you have to do healing workshops and heal all that pain. You have to like commit. You haven't, you know, like how many healing forces how many inner child healing courses.

Have you done? I've been over 20 years I've done how many inner child 2020 inner child healing courses. We're not a course but there's no I want to know inner child healing courses courses or courses in a child that they address your childhood pain. How many of them? Yeah, probably about I don't know. I don't know.

It's all an inner child is it? Don't like this is all come again by so continue to. Yeah, yeah. Having to save what? Well, and you're still trying to save you. So you haven't got there yet?

No, no, no. And you haven't done forensic healing. Sometimes now, am I right? Yeah. Well see there's some you must be doing the same old same old dance and the same old workshops. Yeah, and I see it, but I keep doing it.

I know. I can say that we know we see going to a different dance. I have a different mindset because if your mindset you have to pull apart your mindset You and until you stop. You see, the change happens when you say you know what, I'm going to resist. And from helping those people, you've just changed. Because when you've resisted, you've told the universe I'm going to look in.

And then the universe offers you the pathway. But if you keep on doing a course, the going out and healing others, instead of doing all that work on yourself, you're still doing that same old pattern you're telling the universe I still want to help out with and I really don't want to go in with the change will be when you kisses. You got to be aware, here I go, I'm about to help them I stop. I stop it. Well, you got this is spiritual, it's like push past it. And that's when you grow because you're still the same.

You're still the same from all those years because you haven't pushed past the guilt. Because imagine, if you didn't help anybody for the next six months, imagine if you just stopped and observed Go, here I am, I've created that I brought these people that need help, I'm not gonna I'm not going to sit, I get it. You get accountable for that. Yeah. So we're now we're doing a different dance. And so you can do the journey for all those years and do all those workshops.

But until you're really get real, and you recognize that you're pulling that towards you, and you change, your need to help your need, and you and you push past your guilt. You got to not do it next six months, because that's what you love to do because you're still not healed inside. So you're trying to get and you have to stop and it makes you look when you stop going out. You have to look. You have to have a look. It's gonna force you to stay in here.

It's only a distraction when you go out. Thank you for that awesome question. Not for your feelings. So you to fully feel you have to be where you're feeling. So you have to acknowledge your feelings. You have to be saying yourself, what am I feeling?

You train yourself, what am I feeling? Am I following them? What am I feeling? How many times you say what am I feeling before you make a decision? What do I feel? Everything is for me, always.

And I'm not saying I get it right all the time because when I get it wrong, go where do I get it wrong for your feeling your feelings are taking you to the right outcome to greatness. And sometimes it might be not the direction you want. Because if you ask for something, it's not always your way. You forget that. You've got it because if you're the winner, First talks to you through your feelings. It'll talk to you it'll talk to you more clearly when we empty the jar out of the black words right?

So then you're not got the obstacles blocking the universe talking to because when you got the black words and it's confusing to find out what is that telling me is that what's in me is that the universe, so you've got to get as much clarity so that's why you meditate, your meditation sessions, getting still getting rid of the chaos. That's why we disconnect the things that siphon your energy and cause chaos. Not spiritually and physically evolving. And money that would be moving past your guilt because that guilt is not you You You're got killed because you feel shame because of what was done to you. And feeling guilty for not helping them is saying is it's not you it's not what's needed in a situation. And that's the stretch when you go, I feel this way, but I'm not gonna do it.

I feel obligated, but I know it's not my job to address other people's needs. This isn't I'm here to heal me, you have to keep going back in because you created them. So I'm going to show you this is kind of what would happen. So let's say you're an energy field. All right, and you don't see energy. Let's say we took the energy of Andrea, we put it in here.

And then we put it in a machine and then it deciphered whatever's in our energy field, and then it spits it out at the other end. That's kind of how it is. It's like those free day machines, it's going to take the blueprint and put it through your three year machine, and then it's going to create whatever was in that energy field. And it will come out the other end. You don't see your energy. You've got lots of kill, not to hurt and lots of pain.

So it's going to take your energy just as you're walking around. And then we'll take it through and create it by people in need people suffering and needing help. Because that's in here. And you will stop all that when you actually go into dress, what's your, the energy inside so that's kind of tell us how it works. And it takes a while to get that concept because I can repeat myself and ask, did you hear me and I can repeat myself. And then you just go back into your once you go back to your old environment, you behave in that input environment the same way.

Normally, until you make a plan, go, I'm not going to do this anymore. And that's the spiritual growing. That's a spiritual growth. It's like saying, I'm not gonna date him. He's bad for me. He's mean to me.

I really want to because I like, I don't know, I just want to but he's bad for me. And you just go No. I can't. I'm not gonna I'm just not gonna do it. That takes strength. It's like doing that.

You haven't done that. As much as you want to. You know, it's bad for you. What's the food I know this is really bad. For me, but I'm not going to anything that's bad for you. Not being self aware.

So that's people not aware of how their energy is coming across. You don't realize what you're doing. You don't realize what you're saying is is being left on that person. You don't realize how you say it, or where you're focusing. Or it's a lack of self awareness. Because people are so disconnected and so traumatized can be very lacking self awareness.

So self aware, are you aware of you? Like Imagine if we obey Do do and then you watch yourself back. And you go, Oh, do I do that? Oh my god, I don't do that. Oh, no, that's not me. Camera got it all wrong.

That kind of thing. And some people can be so in denial that talked themselves into it as well. So that's self self awareness. The more connected you are, the more self aware you are. So here's the biggest one. Here's your biggest one lack of consistency.

It's like this. You go, I want to get physically fit. You go to the gym for a whole day or a whole week. Yeah, and then that's it. That ain't gonna do nothing. So I got done the healing course I took the healing course got the healing.

It's, I'd say life as you know, it's a life skill. It's a way of being it has to be incorporated into your life. And the consistency is you get a fall off the horse, you get back on it and you keep moving. You fall off the horse, get back, come back. Come back. Make sure you keep moving.

That's what I know it the forensic healers, the ones that keep turning up and repeating. They're energetically advanced because I've kicked their ass in the class if they weren't there. It's just it just happens that way. And that's a scary thought for some. No, it's not I just it's like, wake up. What do you think you'd Becky the second time?

No, I'm not you not have you need to. They usually have progressed. They don't normally not show up if they've not progressed. But it's this progression that you need to be doing because if you stay stagnant or you fall off, then you get blocked and everyone else takes off in front of you. It's just that consistency is that slow but sure. Okay.

I'm off the horse and we just get back on. Life is your benchmark. If life's working for you, that's great, keep going, do what you do. If it's not working for you, you need to change need to do something. not holding yourself and others accountable. I find that when people don't hold others accountable, they don't hold themselves accountable.

When I let other people off the hook, let themselves off the hook. All right, that makes sense. You let your kids off the hook, you let yourself off the hook. yourself off the hook, you let everyone else off the hook. Don't worry about it. You know, so you just you would ignore things.

Accountability, be accountable for your energy. victim mentality. You know what that one is? I get it. Do I get all of these Donnelly's by the way? Oh, yeah, put my hand up done really well.

So I you know, admit to all of these so victim mentality because you've been a victim and that's all you know. And then you've had terrible things done to you. And I it's like, I get it and I don't and I say I'm sorry and it's not your fault. But that ends up like a crap life if you if you can't get out of victim and be empowered. It just is. So victim mentality, opposite of victim mentality is what what is it?

Hey, now the opposite. What's the opposite? Yeah, I can change this. I can change this. I can do something. I have this.

I have a lot of you saying something to yourself. Hold The time by the way, you always you've got a primary statement that you'll say a lot. Sometimes you go, you might say, am I good enough? You might go, Oh, why did that happen to me? Or this always happens to me. There's something that you say to yourself all the time.

I have a few. But I do have this thing in my mind when I say there's always a solution. There's always a solution. And that gets stronger and stronger. And so there's always a solution, because I've had to say it because of people that get on my table. And I used to worry what I find it well, I sorted out.

And because I've finally got there, it's like, chugging away, and you kind of think you might have got it, but you just keep working at it. And now I have 100% mindset that there's always a solution. So much so that when I was at Woolies, two days ago. Let's set the self checkout and the entity is going a bit weird before I started, this workshop was on Friday. little self checkout, put my groceries through. And I wanted to get in fact, I ate them today there's no it's just soup.

And they've done a special on them or something and the miso soup and it didn't scan. And it didn't scan last time it wasn't scanning this time I asked him what to buy, and I just left the robot then this time, and then the lady came over. And she saw a cheat the home and then she went and did a code and we're in this place and was going around trying to sort of cheat was hoping was blocked, she couldn't get out. So I'm watching her she's there for five minutes. Then she says, I there's nothing else I can do. So that's my cue for what someone says is nothing.

That's when I can step in because I can't really say step aside, lady, you know, stop punching codes in and like, you know what I mean? Yeah, no, that's not really that's not my area. I'll let her do a thing. Then I said, then she goes, nothing else I can do won't budge. And I go So I pulled out my little rewards card, scanned it, and it reset the whole thing. Like, I don't, because I don't know, there's always a solution.

So I've got my card and I'm gonna scan it, and then it reset it and says, yep, that worked. Oh, you've got the golden touch. And I'm like, it's just my mindset. That's why my ex would call me when you say the washing machine is not working. And I come over and do my thing. I go, yes, we can sort this out.

We can sort this out. I'm always like, this can be sorted. So therefore the energy of me going it can be solved. It always solves the answers come to me because that's what I say. And because it's happened so many times, I believe it can be solved. So there's no problem that can't be solved.

How cool is that? Even at the checkout the rewards card Reset the whole thing I love them like yes she gave me permission when they said nothing else can be done right step in all right so mine what your mindset is not reading the signs of the universe ik not reading the signs. I see you guys not read the signs all the time. glennis Yeah. So glennis goes because I saw she did her leg and stuff and then she said, Oh, well I can do this and I can, you know, well and she and she found some things that good that came out of it, which is awesome. And ignore all the signs.

You could go into this with your knees and your legs and all that kind of thing. Something's going on down there, but you kind of got our way They still got this and we still had a month off. And as I said, there's easier ways to have months off, you see? But it's like, why did that? What is this? What is this misalignment?

Because accidents are a creation. And if they if you like them, go for it, but if it's causing you to I don't particularly like accidents. So I'd be looking at where did it go wrong? What is the cat? Where is this energy coming from? So when you start making excuses are Well at least I got this and some people find the positive, which is really nice.

But do you always want to just have to find the positive and have an accident or something go wrong and then have to make it work for you in some way? We do people do that all the time. Oh, well, this this happened only so could you know I made the most of it. Why don't you just look at Then so you can stop the patterns you don't have to have that you can have more flow not removing programming and implants so okay so that's a bit left field so programming implants psyche can have How can I explain this in and get the universe working shop? workshop looking shop quick working shop it's a working shop are on the ship so we're working ship now that's a working ship okay so for instance, I talked about that entity that entered me right? Well sings coming to you and of course bye healing modalities or meditating or detoxing your body, you do what you want to you do what you want to do or do what you can do.

But you've got to just start changing your energy to change these programs and detox your body and but people, you know, you I feel most were awake because you're here and you'll recognize this is important. There are people that are so disconnected. And then they'd like robotic and doing insane things and can do a job that insane has learned humanity to it, they can do those things. They're so they're so programmed and so robotic. And people that are targeted as people that have responsibility government organizations and medical organizations, so that they can From the truth not feeling good karma or being grateful. So you want more access to source you putting the gratitude and you feel the karma not recognizing that every everything begins with energy.

Failing to find stillness, this is another thing. I did this. The first thing my therapist said to me, he said so what do you excel in? What are you really good at? I'm too busy. And that's when all that makes sense.

Because when you have stuff inside, push down, stuck down, locked all in here. So he don't look inside. You go out and you get busy, fill my laptop so I don't have to go fill it out. Because I don't want to look at that let me distract myself. And so when I joined the church, I had to stop all that craziness. And then they had to be at the temple for two hours to study in church on a Sunday.

You had to play the music in your home. stop swearing. I know and you can't like winter, this still stillness. You know, again, not recommended, I'm not lying. But I had to get still. And then I had to given what was then I got still then it only started to come out.

That's when I just used to start crying. Again, that's being spiritual. You have Stop No, I'm not doing that I'm not going out I'm gonna just be still you don't want to be still you know my thoughts but we still have to look at my pain and your run someone said they wanted to run this morning and that's a sign that you're about to look at your pain let's get out the right environment. So you need the right environment This is going in your energy field so what you're in where you live, please bedtime is going into energy field. Is it conducive to healing is a conducive to peace to set boundaries for themselves and how to respond. I have a plan.

I always had a plan. I go you know what many many years ago, I decided it everywhere anyone would say anything mean to me. I wasn't gonna respond. I would never taught me anything back. I was, I don't know, 1520 years ago, I decided I wasn't going to find or answer back in a mean why? Because then I would never feel guilty.

I don't know what to guilty and I slipped on there, but it doesn't mean I was gonna put up with it. So I did I actually had an altercation with my sister in law and she went off with me and done all crazy, snarky. And I go, I'm sorry, I felt that wow. I'm didn't mean that I just was talking about something else. And I wasn't. I didn't deserve the way I was treated.

And then I just walked out. It was a Christmas dinner. I swapped out and I never went back for Christmas dinner. I did try a couple years later. I didn't like the energy like what am I even doing? I didn't like this.

But it's on her I never responded in that way so it sits on her the way she responded to me and so I thought then I'm free I feel guilty and then someone's nasty and I send a nasty email which doesn't happen seriously I've got my the whole energy of Princeton has changed but it did I would get your email either public email someone out the public oh just totally I'm not even gauging in the energy so I already have a plan so I don't put energy on the things that I want being too optimistic not excuse an overlook important detail okay you know overlooking excuses it's all right Miss you're making excuses kind of like a bit of repetitive one of those other numbers I said, being too optimistic scenario, right. possible and you ignore it. Just put it goes onto the carpet. We've got to look at what happened.

You got to talk about it. No one really knows when it happens, you have an issue with a partner. And then they go back to being nice. And then you continue. But you didn't go back and go No, no deal. Instead of going, they're all good.

Now let me talk about what really happened. And I want to talk about this. too optimistic because they can't be positive and stuff. But let let's address it. Let's look at what you're saying. And that's what people fail to do them.

Like you're having a conversation and someone said something, and he didn't stop and go hang on a minute. What do you mean? What did you just say to me? What what you just, you know, because I can make a negative remark and you let it slide, or you're not sure what they meant by what they said before. Can you just explain that? Tell me, our opening to know.

Awesome, we just let people talk and we don't so hey, On, they said this but you never question them on it. And that's when you find out the truth of people. That happens a lot. I did that at lunch. Yesterday, Tina, the guy comes over, and I spoke for coastal but he heard as he comes over, he says, okay, darling croissant, and I just heard darling and I just go Yes. You know what I mean?

She picked it up. I think he wanted a croissant. I kind of I kind of made her the croissant, but the darling stood out. Go Yes. It was so much fun. All right.

Yes, a question. Assume that era assume that everyone should think and behave like them. I can't believe I would do that. I would never do that. Whoever says I can't believe someone would do that. Who ever said that?

Oh, no, who says I can't believe how well, you are. If you say, yes, but you use it to try something. Anybody that says I can't believe someone would do that. Then they fail to see it. Because they're actually not it's not computing They're not believing it. So it doesn't believe so that you don't see the real person.

When I get someone's that constantly though do that. I go, Well, you know what you're gonna stop believing because your brain hasn't computed what they did. So you keep going back or you keep their trickiness because you keep I don't believe people do that. And then, you know, it fails to see it. So believe them. When they do if you said Oh, you gotta stop saying I don't believe it because it makes your brain not believe that that actually happened.

And so it repeats itself. Believe it. It's true. And you don't believe it? I'll tell you why you don't believe it. Because your childhood.

You don't believe what was done to you that often is why because you got your child and it's kind of unbelievable what was done to you. And to survive it. you disconnect from it, and it doesn't become real. So you don't believe it? Cuz you have to survive it. So then you keep on that I'd have believed that happened to me.

So I don't believe other people do those things. And then you get in denial. Yes. I didn't see it coming. Something in your childhood that they're right out of nowhere that you can see coming and you continue to do that, you know, anything that happened in childhood? One example perhaps that my dad, sorry.

Oh, sorry. And my father was the Army Sergeant. So I mean, we did as we were told, how high cetera et cetera. However, he also had mental illness and post traumatic stress and I say okay, my job Daughter, as they got older, was getting ready as soldier for that day. And then one particular time, he had a total meltdown. And I didn't see it coming.

There we go. See, she didn't say coming social setting him as always saying him even though he had health issues, I always saw him as strong soldier. And do you say that in adulthood? I don't see that. I didn't see that coming. And can you just say it now can you see it?

Now we see it. She couldn't see it. But now we see it. She's still stuck and because that was a shock. And now she still attracts it. We have to go in the jar and address that trauma for that little girl that had to get a father ready.

That had that meltdown. It's all in the job. And that's why if you don't see it coming in childhood, it will come out and you will create it. She didn't see coming that you'd have that reaction. Okay? My nose is running, which means we're back on moving everybody's stuff.

Okay? Yeah, that's a big one. Don't assume that everyone's like you just cuz they like you don't you got to stop thinking they like you because they're not I can't believe people would do that I wouldn't do that. Don't assume just because you do it they do it that's when you mess up big time. fail to ask questions go deeper A person's thinking or agenda. Carol, I talked about that one.

Fail to admit wrongdoings and apologize. Yeah. So when you mess up, you say I messed up and apologize. Because otherwise that impedes your progression and pizza relationship and impedes you getting real of what you did. Fell to show who you are. You're hiding yourself.

So we don't see you. We don't know you. The universe can't reach you, because you're not. You can't be totally connected to source. If you're playing small, you can't be connected. You can't be real enough.

But you really think how you really who you really are Lack commitment. When things get tough, that's when they get tough is when it counts. That's when you change, you want to know when change occurs, it's when it gets tough. You because You want more. Okay? So you're cruising.

So the time gets tough, and it's in between you going through the toughness is the actual change for you to become what you want. Because it has to stretch you the crisis happens. And if you pull out, pull up and get you know, stop and don't do it. You fail to do that spiritual evolution of riding through it. And going gets tough is when you know you cross over and you've now elevate and change your energy and change who you are. Do you say it's all too hard if you say it's all too hard, that's too hard in your childhood.

And you had to withdraw. So it's like riding it through. And that's why you need energy. You need good energy around you to help you right through. Nothing worse than you. When you've got a lot of negativity around you.

It's so easy just to pull out because you don't have it. You've got their energy pulling you out. You've got the crises and everything. All too hard. Has anyone ever said it's all too hard? But you do.

Well, you go look at your childhood. And Steve was really too hard back then and you got to change it and go, you know what, I can do this. I can and don't say it's so too hard because it's so too hard. The universe will give You will too hard. They'll always give you all too hard and look at when it was too hard and go inside and change that pattern. I wouldn't be doing that today.

Black and the last 123 not detoxing physically. So if you're spiritually trying to evolve and your body is toxic or you're not cleansing that as well it's hard to keep up. Because the heavy because if you been had toxic emotions, your body's going to be toxic. Basically. You'll be blocked it it's going to hold in toxins in your body because you're blocked shut down. You can do liver detox is really cheap things you can do to detox your body can do a gallbladder liver flush.

Google that you can take the cabbage wall radish, cabbage and salt. That's amazing. It's like a colonic flash. Yeah, there's all these things that you can do because you go take your car and get serviced, when you service your organs and your body and they are so overworked. So, you know, abused in a way and we don't invest in our body. And then when you physically feel better, it's easy to feel spiritually better, doesn't it?

It actually takes that and it actually will remove because detoxing is hard work. If you especially if you've been really toxic for me. It's been like really hard work. It's not easy. It's not pleasant. It's not fun.

It's easy. Now it's I've done it for all these years. But it's gonna remove emotions. It's gonna make you feel crap or it's gonna make you feel tired. I remember the first gallbladder liver flush that I did. I just, I couldn't get out of bed.

It was like I was so knocked out because I was removing a lot of heavy metals. But I've many detoxes that have knocked me about and have really made me feel shocking. Fortunately now after like a few decades of doing it, I'm postel it's really important to take care of your physical body and also do some exercises. So, number 13. We're going to do my biggest weaknesses, and you're going to look at those lists and write down some of your biggest weaknesses and how you're going to do it differently. And have an action plan and look at everything I talked about.

Look at some of the Epiphany she got and write them down. I'll give you 15 minutes to write down and the biggest weakness and what you're now going to do differently.