Getting enough now, what are the signs of rising tension? It's all in body language and the first sign of rising tension tends to be quite gross one. Either they'll lean away to avoid conflict, or they're leaning as a sign of aggression. gestures often get either more animated, or more subdued, depending on their appetite for conflict, face touching, or eye rubbing can be signs of disbelief and discomfort, trying to hide from the truth or perhaps stop it getting out. A furrowed brow means stress and rubbing it he's trying to work through it difficult idea. Next, touching, playing with necklace or adjusting a color shows uncertain See a lack of confidence trying to reassure yourself, the lower down the body, the self touching gets, the more insecure they're feeling and rubbing wrist ringing playing with bracelets or cuffs or indicate uncertainty trying to reassure themselves that they are in control.

And the ultimate distress is indicated by body hugs or palm ringing or rubbing the thighs. All of these suggest to someone who's getting deeply uncomfortable and that conflict could be around the corner. So, if you understand the signs of rising conflict, what are the stages that conflict follows as it escalates? Well, that's simple to articulate. It's kind of like the first side of a boomerang. Before we get into conflict, we start with a chord but that a chord starts to turn into irritation, and that irritation starts to morph into resistance.

But remember, resistance isn't yet fully conflict because resistance is grounded in rationality. Conflict really starts when resistance turns to frustration and anger. And you know, you're in real conflict when that anger shows itself as abuse. Beware, when you've got abuse that can turn into violence, the apex