Alright, I'm going to give you a bonus because I talked about this a little bit in the first introductory video of this course. And because it's something that all of us wants to experience in life, we don't just want to heal from our past traumas, but we want to attract the right relationship into our life. And so we're going to talk about attracting true love and loving relationships. Now, yes, I did tell you how I was going to show you how to attract relationships into your life that are healthy, whole and good, and how to attract the right person into your life. Now, this might be a difficult concept if you are just coming out of a breakup or the end of a long term relationship or marriage. So if that's the case, give yourself time to heal.

Do the exercises and the lessons that are in this course. When you get to a place where you're, you're ready to really move on and you're you're ready to start the process of maybe seeking out finding the right person for you come back to this bonus lesson. As you heal, and as you learn about how your past experiences have showed you the things that love is not, it will become more clear to you what you don't want to experience in a future relationship. But that's not where you're going to put your focus and attention. Actually, you're going to focus on attracting love that feels like love. As you explore what love is and what love isn't.

Let your focus shift on what you want in your life regarding relationships. This is essential to attracting healthy relationships and friendships, at work, and improving your relationships with family. It is also essential to attracting the right person into your life, to have the kind of true love relationship that you've always dreamed up. A simple way to make this work is to add to your affirmations every day, this simple mantra I am whole and perfect as I was created, and I am attracting my ideal mate in true love into my life. Another mantra or effort mission that works is this. I am in the best and most healthy relationship with my true love.

What you focus on grows, what you put your attention on comes into being and becomes a part of your experience. Here is another practical way to align yourself with the right person and bring them into your life. Take your journal out, write in your journal, the characteristics of your dream partner. Write down how you feel when you're around them. Write down what you're looking for, and make it about their heart and their character qualities. Let go of appearances for a bit.

Ladies, you might have in your mind that you want to attract a tall, dark, dashing man who drives a Mercedes and wears a $5,000 Armani suit every single day on the dates that he takes you on. Okay, that's fine. That's great. What about his heart? Is he kind is he courteous is generous. Is he a gentleman?

Is he generous to you at this time? With his resources, is he loving and caring and loyal? Is he faithful? Does he show you every day that you are his queen and that he is completely devoted to you and every way. These are the areas where you put your focus. attract the partner for you, who fills your life with happiness, and joy, who sits beside you when you feel like you're at your worst?

Who encourages you regularly, who never, you never have to compete for attention from who sees your beauty, whether you're wearing makeup or not, who you have fun with and enjoy life with. Now guys, the same applies to you. Let go of appearances for a moment. The long legged luscious lady with big hair and great boobs isn't what you're wanting to attract unless she mirrors your heart and has the internal attributes of a loving faithful, genuine partner. Still focus on who she is on the inside. Right down Character qualities you want in an ideal partner?

Is she loving and caring and sweet? If she's strong and vibrant? Does she take care of her business? Is she full of joy and laughter and brings light with her wherever she goes? Does she help you be the best version of you? Does your relationship with her make you grateful and thankful every day?

That's where I want you to start. Add more characteristics for what you're looking for. But write down the character qualities of who you want to attract into your life. What does she look like on the inside? Because the most beautiful woman or guy that doesn't have the right heart can break your heart again. And I don't want you to go through that experience.

I don't want to go through that experience. This works. What I just told you this works. It worked for me. I drilled for two years what I wanted in a partner. I focused on character qualities and traits.

I focused on compatibility. I believe that God takes notes with us because love wants what it wants. True Love is what I want. And all my you love wants me to have that love to love wants to be whole. I found my true love and my partner and I could recognize her almost right away because she matched everything that I've been writing about everything that I've been focusing on. Everything that I've been praying for.

The love that I felt in her as who she is, is the love that is in me. We recognize love in ourselves, and we can recognize it and other people whom are operating and we're sowing love into ourselves every day. But here's the thing. I had to surrender, finding her to God instead of trying dating sites or dating apps or going to places to just meet women and go on dates and all that stuff. I did a couple people for a couple months, but two years ago, and the dating side of things didn't really work out for me all that Well, I had to surrender all that stuff and focus on. This is what I want in my life.

And I'm going to trust Almighty love to bring it into being and as I'm letting go of control. If you've experienced controlling a relationship before somebody trying to control you, you know how control really Jacks things up and makes things not work the way it's supposed to. So don't try to control how you find the right person. Trust God, trust Almighty love to bring that relationship to you. But focus on what it is that you want. Which means don't force this surrender, let go.

Don't rush into it either. Surrender control of how it happens when it comes into being the right time is the right time. Trust Almighty love to bring you the relationship of your dreams. Now, one other thing to practice when you're doing this, don't tell yourself that you're unworthy of love or that it won't find you. Because if you do that, then you'll fulfill what you believe in what you think your thoughts and your focus should be. Your reality.

Keep your focus on what you want and trust God, trust the universe. Trust Almighty love or whatever you call the divine. Trust, love to make the meeting of your perfect person become a reality.