Are you putting conditions on your motivation? Are you saying things like, if this thing gets too hard, I'll just quit. Things aren't working out like I planned. So this thing is just too messy. I'm just not feeling excited about this anymore. What you're doing is placing expectations of perfection on your aspirations or goals.
You're setting yourself up to easily get discouraged and quit. you're placing conditions on your enthusiasm. You're thinking that if something is an easy or fun, then it isn't worth doing. This is very close to an all or nothing mindset. You're saying to yourself, if it isn't all just right, then I'm not doing any of it anymore. This is a type of extreme thinking.
You think your experiences need to be totally good, or they're totally bad, and you're no longer motivated? this mindset sets an unreasonable rule or condition by which any outcome less than 100% equals zero percent. It's easy to see how all or nothing thinking can lead to a lot of harsh negativity about your mission and even yourself. For example, let's say you're motivated to lose weight. Then one day at a restaurant, you cheated on your diet and a very fattening dessert. You say to yourself, I knew I couldn't do it.
It's too hard to resist temptation when it's right there on the menu. I guess my diet is over. When you should say to yourself, one dessert doesn't erase the success I've had with my diet. I've made significant changes and things won't always go perfectly. I'm not going to let this one slip up ruin the progress I've made. The lessons here are there is no such thing as perfection.
There is no such thing as everything being easy. There is no such thing as being totally problem free. And there is no such thing as feeling upbeat all the time. Life can get messy, even stinky, if you can accept that and roll with it. The You can maintain a consistent level of motivation and move forward with your projects. Motivation shouldn't rely on unrealistic expectations of how you feel emotionally about something.
Motivation should be about making a firm decision to achieve something and doing whatever it takes to accomplish it. Success requires determination and persistence, even when things don't go as planned. So hang in there and please don't quit.