Oh, you're so pretty for a black girl. Oh, she has a Juno's. Oh your hair would look so good if it was straight Jews are so cheap Why are you so cheap? Do you speak good English? How are you an Iraqi Jew? I think person's saying microaggression kind of doesn't really think about it.

This person is I that was my friend and like I was just honest, they would like say something like that. You don't want to make a big deal about it. But then it's also like you just said something that offended me. So I feel like I should speak up because they're micro because they're very subtle. They they're small. You feel you don't have a reason to be upset.

You're overreacting and people even can make you feel that way. When you bring it up. They're like, Oh, you can't take a job. You're making too big of a deal. Why are you overreacting don't take it so seriously, it was just a joke. Chill out, say like, Oh no, I actually love black people.

I love people of color. Like they try to just minimize the situation if someone feels hurt by a microaggression It shouldn't just be pushed to the side. It definitely has negative impacts and like leads to people disliking, but they actually are those kinds of subtle. offensive comments can build up over time and they can have like, a deep psychological effect and, you know, they can make you feel bad and they can make you doubt yourself. We try to just use jokes to like make things less awkward or like ease social experiences. But it is important because you need to like be aware of what you're saying and like, who you're speaking to think of what you sound and how can I affect the person you're saying?