So the next question we're going to explore is, what do your non friends admit you are good at? Okay, let me explain this a little bit. So we're not talking about best friends. And we're also not talking about your enemies. I'm also not talking about relatives Why? So, first of all the perception you have of yourself and what you're good at can be very different to the perception of what other people can see that you are good at.
And that's why it's important to understand and see the other perspective outside of our own Okay, and we won't, we wouldn't choose to speak to our friends to ask them, what they think we're good at, is, of course, there's going to be some biased rights or friends or friends and therefore they might not be honest with you, or they want to just be nice or they want to be encouraging. So they might not necessarily give you the total truth. And it's actually very natural for us and difficult for us to not ask the people of which we know are going to give us the answer we want to hear. And that's actually something we call confirmation bias. Which is where, which is where we purposely speak to and seek out answers from people who we know are going to give us the answers that we seek.
So confirmation bias or something very natural to us. And an example of that is if you know, if I want to feel good about myself, and I asked my mom, what does she think about me? And she may tell me, I'm the most beautiful woman in the world that she's seen. But that's probably a very biased opinion, right? But not something, we're still talking about confirmation bias. And that's what we mean by this.
We don't want to do that with this question. We want to steer away from this confirmation bias. But we also don't want to go to people who obviously have some reason not to like us or reason to look at us only negatively. And that's why we say no enemies. So specifically, when we say non friends here, we're talking about people like some maybe some work colleagues, you have people, acquaintances that you see every now and then someone who's in the same social circles as you, but it's not necessarily with you all the time. People like this.
So thanks about it, give it really some thoughts. Think about these kinds of people don't think of more than one. Don't just choose one person, if you can, and write write that down, take some minutes to think about it. And do so before moving on to the next question.