I believe that this lecture comprises of some of the most important information in this course. Among the specific difficulties that most couples face in a sexual relationship is learning to use the right language to communicate specific information about sexual matters. Now, I want to ask you is being vulgar wrong in a sexual relationship? Well, it may or may not be right. In your case. The thing is, one couples vulgarity.

Maybe another couples love talk, typically how one couple may use a certain set of words to communicate specific information about their body parts, or certain positions or how they engage in sex that may be very different from others. Another couple. This reinforces why I want to stress upon the fact that this course caters to your individual needs. Sex is an individual sport. And once you understand that, then the entire workings of this course that can be applied in a more effective way. Now coming back to what has been scientifically studied in this particular case, being vulgar with regard to sex may create a negative connotation in your partner's mind.

However, it is my suggestion that you actually clear this up with your partner to try and find out what works best for them. Also, a couple may engage in sex, but rarely, if ever talk about it. This is really funny, because we are sexual beings after all, and rarely do we ever talk about Sex is really contrary to how we behave. We engage in sex, we have it going on all around us. Yet no one ever opens up about it. No one ever talks about it.

Think about it, your own life when you are growing up. How much of interaction Did you have with your parents, with your teachers? Compare that with how much you spoke about sex with your friends. There is a huge disparity. And then when you have your doubts, you go to the internet and you search about it. There is such a huge disparity of quality information that hampers your knowledge of what is actually normal, and is beneficial for one sexual health versus what isn't.

That's the thing. Learning to talk about. Sex is very Very important. This is something that you want to make a very normal habit. In fact, when I was studying as a student, one of the primary things that we had to do to interact with our patients much more easily was talk about sex as if it was just another thing. We used to refer to it as talking about tea or coffee in our department.

It wasn't very different. And that's the key. The more you try and make sex different or make it seem like this is not normal, or it is abnormal to talk about it, the harder it is for you to communicate about sex. You want to refrain from this as much as possible and get into a comfortable state where talking about sex is a completely normal activity for you. Another thing is that some couples may be open to talking about sex. But may find it weird to actually do so.

Or they may be lacking agreeable or common language to communicate certain aspects of what they feel. This is very, very interesting to think about. How does it play out in your life? Have you thought about it? Well, the thing is, because most people today may end up in a relationship where they're with someone who doesn't necessarily share their beliefs. They come from different backgrounds, and now they are engaging in a sexual relationship.

Now they are forced to speak about different things that maybe they don't have the same language for that sex is one of the things that they engage in, but rarely, even if they do want to talk about it. They can't because they don't know how to Do it, they don't have the same vocabulary. That's why sitting down and talking about what your partner finds comfortable, how you depict and talk about certain body parts, or different sexual positions, and so on and so forth. This is something that you want to actually take time with. That's what it means to use the right language whenever you talk about sex. Now, how do you know whether that language works, or doesn't work?

The thing is, if you follow these steps that I've laid out here, you can go about doing this quite easily. The first one is, how do you refer to sex? What is that word that you use to describe sexual intercourse? Or how do you depict genitals? How do you depict the male and female organ? What is it called?

In your native tongue, this is something that you want to try and understand. Because it's best to find common ground with your partner with regard to what is the best language that both of you can agree upon, and then stick with that particular terminology for a long period of time, it's not going to always be the case where you are going to sit and use scientific terms to describe the stuff. Maybe you have your own playful names that you want to use, you can go ahead and do that too. That also makes it unique and special to your relationship. This is something that you actually want to sit down and think about, maybe have a discussion with your partner to try and understand better. I understand that you may find this awkward at first, but let me tell you if you're in this relationship and you're serious about taking your sex life, to the The next level, this is a necessary step.

A mismatched choice of words, or lack of common language of love and sex can actually indicate a much bigger difference between the both of you than just mere words. This statement can make such a huge impact in the context of your relationship, that you may not even comprehend it completely. What the statement actually means is that even though you may like each other, and that you care about one another, the bigger picture here is that when you come from two different worlds, two different backgrounds that have absolutely nothing in common, that usually stands out and affects the relationship in a very strong way. And something as simple as not speaking the same language when it comes to sex. acts are love that can indicate or can be a sign of a much, much bigger problem in the long run. This is something that you want to pay attention to, you want to look into and see whether it is actually afflicting you.

In essence, try and find common language that both of you can agree upon. And then use that on a regular basis. Whenever you are talking about sex. Try to normalize talking about sex and make it a habit so that all of the content that I am sharing with you in this training system that comes across and you are able to implement it with ease. I'll see you in the next lecture.