Meet Tina. She spent the last 10 years of her life trying to get promoted at work. Finally, one day she was given the job she's been working for. For the first few months, she was super excited, but quickly found herself overworked, exhausted and completely miserable. Every day she gets mad at her coworkers because they don't do things the way she thinks they should. She gets impatient with the mailman because he sometimes arrives late and even starts off most days getting irritated with the lady from the coffee shop because she doesn't remember Kenya's order every morning.

Although she's finally achieved the job of her dreams. Tina realizes she isn't happy. After taking some time to think about it, she decides that she needs to make some changes in her life. She'd like to move to a new city and find a new job. Surely a new context will be exactly what she needs to find fulfillment and happiness. So that's what she does.

She spends a few months job searching finds a new job in a city She's always thought she'd like to live in. The details get sorted, and within a few months, she's in the New City, starting her new job. At first, she's happier. She's excited to learn about the new tasks she'll be doing, meet her new coworkers, and explore this new city. But within six months, she finds herself in the same rut she was in before, annoyed, impatient and angry all the time. She's complaining about the city all the time, her coworkers don't work as hard as they should.

Bla bla bla. Basically, Tina took no time before her life pivot to fix some of her internal mindsets that were limiting her chances of really being happy. Although she could change the context, if she didn't also change the way she looked at her life and herself. things wouldn't really change.