Let me talk about the research. Let's get into the meat of what was common across all of these stories. It was incredible. Every one of these annoying stories of couples that tried for years or couples of T co s people that were told advanced age all these labels, all these diagnosis, that that that we researched what was common across these people that had the surprise, unexpected conception, many people have two years of unsuccessful treatment. Now listen, I will tell everyone up front we are not or cannot suggest that you complete any program and it leads to a natural, unexpected conception but what I will literally never stop fighting for is that you your ability to emotionally be well and connected can absolutely dramatically change your quality of life. And I absolutely believe that if you're emotionally well and connected then you will make the decisions downstream.
That bring you to, to the right place for you and your own personal journey. And for some, I believe that absolutely this can be the game changer help the treatment that they're going to be more successful. It can be the way in which someone that's looking for an alternative approach. And it could be for others that are unsure what to do next, find that clarity. So what we uncovered is these nine emotional transitions that we've captured in what we've called these three chapters. It's chapter one, and this we call them chapters and they just became these these themes be between all this research that we did.
The first chapter is called the conception of doubt. And I'll describe each of these chapters in a bit. But this entire chapter, really I summarize it is it's the way we're starting to think about what's happening to us. It's the thinking part, because when we start to think a certain way, then we start to act and do things based on the way we're thinking. So that conception of bow is first Chapter, there's these three transitions that we've covered that I'll describe to you in a moment. This second chapter is where couples we call it kind of losing patience and becoming a patient.
There's nothing wrong with being a patient, by the way, but it's more about the patient mentality. It's more about the identity. In this entire chapter, we covered these three tipping points in here. This entire chapter is really anchored to this ability to cope. How do we cope when we're dealing with what's happening to us? So conception of doubt has to do with the sense of self, how we think about ourselves, our bodies.
The second chapter has to do with our ability to cope. And then the third chapter, we call this surrender to life. Is this giving up on your journey to parenthood? No, is this trying to convince you to go and off the job? Nope. Is this time to tell you to switch your path or get out a tree?
No. surrendering is not giving up. It's not letting It's just this dramatic change in the way in which we're engaged in this process that we're thinking about this process. And this entire surrender to life is really anchored by this construct about staying engaged in life. So we have three chapters conception of doubt has to do with your sense of self, the way we're thinking, losing patient, becoming the patient says become all the things we're doing to just fix ourselves. And it's doing, it's the way we're behaving.
It's our actions. And in that it's how we coping. And then the third piece is surrendering. This is where people came to this place where there was a statistical shift emotionally that took place. And this has to do with their engagement in life. And in through this entire program.
It's really giving you the words, the language to describe what is happening. So many women would say it's just I felt everything is raw emotion. This gave me the words it gave me the language to connect to validate what's happening. And I had a doctor recently say that the program reminded him of like stages of grief that if you've ever aggrieved to know that there's these common transitions that you're moving through, when you can normalize what's happening to you, and validate some of the extreme emotions that you're feeling that many people don't even like that I had this thought in my head, when you do that we meet you where you are, that's where we now can empower you and create the shift. So the purpose of the program is we have couples the words the language, people describe this, as I understand what stage I'm at, I understand where I just came from, and I have some insight into where I need to go.
Probably I'm not going to tell you what to do. It's how we start to come to these things by trusting and listening to our intimate intuition, as an individual as a couple in the entire program is really designed to promote emotional wellness and be a critical part of your preconception care.