What kind of relationship do you want? Love and the way we experience relationships is a choice. Here are the choices. Do you want to have an in love feeling? Or do you want a real true love relationship? Let's look at the difference between the two.

Here's some characteristics of the in love feeling. you depend on the relationship for self esteem. You take more from the relationship than you give. The relationship drains you emotionally, mentally and physically. You are jealous of their separate activities. You can't stop thinking about them.

You're afraid the other person could lose interest, or you feel like you need them. And here's some characteristic of real true love. You know that both of your individuals have separate but together both except the fact that neither is perfect. You give each other enough space You can do your own things. Each of you continues to grow as independent human beings. You take care of each other.

Both of you love to give and receive from each other. You both hold trust and honesty to a high standard. You understand and accept each other as they are. And finally, you respect each other's needs. So which one do you want?