Reflectors should not be rushed into making decisions. reflectors are not designed to operate under pressure. In fact, pressure is not healthy for the reflector. The strategy for reflectors is to wait 28 days one complete lunar cycle before they make any major life decisions. Now, during this 28 day period the reflector is going to be discussing their options for about this decision with others and not be necessarily because they're looking for advice or input from the others. The reflector is simply using others as a sounding board.

So once again, the strategy is to wait 28 days one complete lunar cycle. Discuss the options with others using others as a sounding board before they reflect reaches clarity and makes a decision. Here's an example. Let's say the reflector it's looking to buy a house reflector visit several locations finds a location that feels correct. The reflector is very interested in this house. So he makes a good faith deposit.

And then he asked the real estate agent and the seller if they would consider taking the house off the market for the next 28 days, so he can decided this house is really correct for him. Now, do you think that's going to happen? Probably not. Here's another example the reflectors shopping for a new car, he finds a great car on Craigslist. He makes a good faith deposit and asked the owner to please hold the car for 28 days, and he'll decide if it's correct for him during those 28 days. Not likely to happen.

So as you can see, we don't necessarily live in a reflector friendly world. I'd like to share with you a story of one of my coaching clients who just happens to be a reflector This reflector was going through some very, very challenging times in his life, the loss of career, a divorce and some extreme financial challenges all at once. When this reflector got introduced to human design, and discovered that he was a reflector and how important his environment or his location was to him, he really took it to heart. He decided to go and visit his daughter, he went to visit his daughter who lives beachside when he went to visit her, he just felt so good in that location. Things just felt wonderful to him. So what did he do?

He waited the full 28 days one lunar cycle, visited the location several additional times to make sure it still felt the same. And then he decided at the end of those 28 days that he was going to relocate. So he did and let me tell you by being in a different location, his whole life changed. Yes, he's still got divorce and yes He's still lost a career. And yes, he's still had some financial issues. But let me tell you being in that different environment he started to thrive.

And lo and behold, before you know it, he was up and running again, thriving a healthy and a happy reflector, all because he decided to relocate to an environment that felt correct for him.