Nothing is real again, I keep coming back to that nothing is well, everything is meaningless, even an illness. I was working with Neelam this morning, and we made a joke of all the illnesses that she know the pain that she was having. And we turned it into a joke. And all of a sudden it appeared. Yes. Because while we were working, I mean, we were laughing about it, and I couldn't stop laughing.

And the strange thing was I kept wanting to sit up straighter and straighter. And my head was going up straighter, my shoulders were relaxed. So that was actually was quite funny, wasn't it this morning, I just the whole thing became humorous, really, even illness, if you treat it as not real is not real. But as soon as I say that, if you say I don't believe you. That's your truth. I had the question in my in my head.

What is mail them, according to what you believe we come back to this one in all this time I keep demonstrating what is it mean? Am I telling you off? Am I dead shaking my finger or my blessing you? What is real is how you perceive something and what you perceive becomes your reality. And when you take it one step further, when you deal in relationships, a game will always mind reading. If somebody says, No, for example, assume say something which set you if you turn into a joke, yes, it won't be so seriously, would it?

I guess not. Okay. I mean, obviously, you've had many discussions. So let's have one part where he said something. Yes. Which upset you god, I'm trying to think or you might say something and then he said something which you then change, maybe the negative story.

He doesn't mind me shouting. Does he say that? Yes. Then you turn around and say, that's your perception. Yeah. Yes.

Instead of thinking, how I kind of respond because I don't feel like I'm shouting out him. I feel like I'm just talking loudly about. I talk loudly. A little bit. Here myself. Yeah.

So I can't actually think of an incident. Well, I mean, he says, Well, I think you shouting me, Louis. Yeah. And if you thought it was true, you'll be a little bit offended or whatever it is. On the other hand, he was talking, I said, you shouldn't be shouting at me. I'm not an affiliate.

Come on less and more examples. Now. This is a good topic to work on tonight. I mean, I've done that a lot where I've been, it's been a situation and I keep saying, in my own mind, or that happened that happened. I mean, I okay. I'll give you an example.

Tonight. For instance, my mom has not been well, and she had an appointment that the doctors that can define and rang at 530 no reply quarter to six and six o'clock I started panicking. Why exactly why? So I went into the future and I read that this thing about if you go into the future, you think it and if you're in the past or whatever. So that was my old pattern. I started I still kept breathing.

I kept repeating the mantras and I and I was like, What? Why are you panicking? Because the old stuff came back so I was making Oh, has you fallen down? Have they had to take her to the hospital? And it was just like I couldn't stop my brain. Okay.

Yeah, so basically 22 seven I got through and Yes, okay, fine. Yes, it took a long while at the doctor's as it doesn't, blah, blah, blah. And they've given us a medication and she's her heart. Heart rate is a lot better. What have you done this for you giving yourself a hard time? Okay.

Now, if I was going to tell myself a story about my mom fell down for example. Yes. How's it Oh, wonderful for her to experience that as die quickly. Please be good to be reborn again. Do I yeah. Hello.

Yes, yes. Yes. Magic says die quickly. I had bit of resistance to that statement because you have given it your meaning, meaning something different because they get reborn quickly. Don't hang around here at 96 years old and get reborn and enjoy yourself again. Because you didn't understand my mind.

Yes, you took offense to it here again is the meaning that you have third row. Anybody right so what Aaron do you say these things because you're more detached? Yes. Because I understand there's no that kind of death because I know that mom is with me all the time. My dad is with me my grandparents I'm with me all the time. All I have to do is to tune into that frequency.

Yes. And not go say I miss you. I agree for you. What do you say that to somebody else or insensitive say that friend or foe. For example, a friend of mine that passed away or somebody his mom, one of your friends, mom. We are all together.

No, I'm just curious if you'd say that this is why this is why when when somebody passes away, I find it a huge challenge to say I'm sorry to hear about bla bla bla bla, because when I'm sorry, that's a negative word. Again, the general consensus of I am sorry, I should be saying, I'm so glad. I'm so glad that you're, you're so and so passed away, you're having a good time over there. We behave in a certain way. And we treat death as a terrible thing when death should be celebrated culture. And so children that have been brought into society that that death is a celebration.

It's a big party, because they understand the journey. why sometimes so painful if it's not a bad thing? It's a painful thing because you think it's how you should be behaving. So when somebody is has passed over like a very close family, yes, we grieve for them to be here for the person passing but I do I do because for the person passing I'm so happy to When we have memories of it, yes is our grief. But that person is already here. Even when they're passing, they're still in the here and now in a different frequency.

They're not in a solid frequency. And if you understand that, that they are still here, all you have to do is tune into that frequency. And then when you have dreams from them from them, they're telling you I'm okay. And they're telling you to let go. But because you don't understand it, you have your story. Yes.

And so it becomes your reality. Who is right, you're right. I'm right. Okay. Everybody's right from their point of view. The point is, I'm saying how we react to it.

I'm still happy here too, and you get upset. I'm very serious. today's conversation is very good. It's got you really, for instance, loses a child who's 10 years old? Yes. 10 or 12 year old.

I can. Okay, I can grasp what you're saying. But they've lost their child was only 10 As old they have yes they will they will go through and know why we grieve, grieve for years and everything. And there's that part is okay, but I would I mean, if it was my my friends and they've lost a 10 year old child I would go and say I'm sorry that you've lost your child. Well, I wouldn't you wouldn't because I understand that here yeah but you have to understand their pain story knowing the same frequency frequency we have to understand the pain to be empathic in sympathetic within your sympathetic system bad one because you match that frequency. Why do I want to match your frequency when you've lost your child might be you know, my normal day tapping on meet you.

Oh, I'll come out and feeling bad about you instead about now I'm gonna talk to everybody else about it. Oh, you know, so and so. So lost a child, and then I'll be depressed. Yes, yeah, but not I'm not going to be drawn into your world because we each have our own worlds, we each have our own perception. This is why tonight's topic is very good. Nothing is well until you decide what it is.

I don't know how we got here, does this happen or not? So this conversation topic, I don't know how it started, it doesn't really matter because whatever patient is supposed to be coming up, because you know, is this that way? Whatever it is, then that's the conversation we supposed to have until something else happens. So we come back to the reality of you, I'm making it up. Let's talk about how bad in terms of beating death This is gonna make us really, really upset. No, don't get ahead.

If death is a celebration that no, they're going on a journey. And we're going to say hi, guys, you know, because we know everybody's on a journey. Yeah, I know most of you here are down because you choose to look at death in the other way. And it's cool. Now, it's up to you. You can even stay down all the time now or you better change your mind.

Because you are the one in control now you can see, that's wonderful. Another way of looking at it, which I never thought of, is still insisting how it should be from your point of view. It's the one thing in life is that we die. From what I've seen so far, you know, I don't know. One thing we hold on mode to wanting to be one thing we hold on mode, that's your perception. And that's your world.

And it's cool if you want to feel that way understand why Yeah, what is the point of the journey Now tell me to have different experiences, experiences based perception to see how something from a different point of view Yes, and why is it so difficult to have this point of view on death? something for you to take away? Okay. And when you start to be very flexible in talking and different little points of death, then that would be another story. Sorry, I just joined What do you mean now? Watch what point of view have just pulled down here when I'm brought up death.

And this is a joyful thing I don't I don't know, I will not say I'm sorry to heal substances away passing because my within my mind is I'm so happy for that person passing away because understand they're going on to another journey and nobody dies. However, if you think that this is the final thing in this world, you're going to be upset and locked into the matrix of what everybody thinks and when that subject was brought up the whole energy change. Now I say why can you change something else again, you know, now you're locked in. So are you gonna sit to the next 25 minutes or 30 minutes during a run? It's up to you and, and this is a good chance for you now to change your your your story that you're telling yourself to be upset. You could say it's good.

It's another perception I never thought of. That's good. I've been reminded that you know, when people pass away, I'm holding on to my grief. It's a lot of the well most of the times it's Because you are missing that person, if you're not, the person has gone, that acceptance is there, but it's ourselves that you are grieving because we've lost something lost that makes us okay. He isn't excellent. As an exercise now, yes.

Whoever that you've lost because we've lost somebody, okay. Imagine you swap places. Okay that you are over the other side. Yes. And you're writing a letter to whoever it is that's on this side. What kind of letter would you write?

I would say to them if I was on the other side, I would say to them, don't grieve for me. Don't be upset. Yeah, whatever. Yeah. I'm having a great time here. Yes.

Yeah. Yeah. Okay. Yeah. Listen, do that exercise, please. Because when my dog died, I think some of you remember Yes.

I wrote a letter and he lifted me and actually, that lovely dog inspired me to start the course out. And so from from her death and writing that letter over to Me I was so inspired. Yeah. And the cost started and this is where we are today with it. Sorry, Aaron, who wrote the letter. Sorry, I wrote a letter if I was the dog, I see.

Okay. Okay. Okay. Remember? Yeah. You said yeah, no, is it?

Yeah, I know you're upset. Please don't. Because I'm having a whale of a time over here. I'll be visiting you but, you know, let go of your grief to me because, you know, I'm okay. Because I'm just telling you, none of us die. Please do that.

And whoever it is that you've lost, write a letter, reverse the process and then you will understand okay, right.