So which benefits you're going to choose, you might never have even thought about the fact there are positive and negative benefits to every choice we make. And every position we take when we're facing a change, especially if it's a change that we didn't choose. So here's the challenge. What's the reason that we get so attached to failure over success? failure brings us pity sympathy, comfort and attention. That's a positive benefit.

That we give up. self respect, self esteem, access and responsibility. That's the negative benefit of failure. Success on the other hand, whatever it is, brings us more self respect, more self esteem, more access and more responsibility. Those are very positive benefits. We get however, less pity, sympathy, comfort and attention, so forgot to give up the pity the sympathy that come from me attention for the positive benefits of Success.

We've got to go through change. We know how that feels. We need comfort and attention. That's true. And sometimes we get so used to them and to pity and sympathy. We miss out on the positive growth we could have.

When you decide that the positive benefits of success are important to you, it takes change to add more awesome