1 00:00:11,370 --> 00:00:15,600 Unknown: So now we're going to start to talk about the pillars 2 00:00:15,600 --> 00:00:19,110 themselves the main topic of this course. But before we 3 00:00:19,110 --> 00:00:25,020 proceed, I want to say something. And I want to say 4 00:00:25,020 --> 00:00:31,380 this, you have to understand that relationships are very 5 00:00:31,380 --> 00:00:36,150 complex. So this whole topic of relationship is a really complex 6 00:00:36,150 --> 00:00:41,910 topic. And if you just want to define relationship as something 7 00:00:41,910 --> 00:00:45,930 really particular, it's really hard to do. So essentially, this 8 00:00:45,930 --> 00:00:51,990 topic can be broken down in so many different areas.

And like 9 00:00:51,990 --> 00:00:56,940 almost eventually, because this is how complex we are, as human 10 00:00:56,940 --> 00:01:02,070 beings, there's a lot of things involved. No state mental space, 11 00:01:02,760 --> 00:01:09,900 physical health, anything cultural, you name it, it's all 12 00:01:10,470 --> 00:01:17,610 taking part in the relationships between people. So, with this 13 00:01:18,030 --> 00:01:24,900 acknowledgement, which will then send that, us, us personally, 14 00:01:26,159 --> 00:01:28,289 this is something that we found 15 00:01:29,610 --> 00:01:33,720 are the main seven areas of every relationship that you 16 00:01:33,720 --> 00:01:40,590 could definitely identify and work on. You can also use them 17 00:01:40,680 --> 00:01:44,160 as tools to diagnose your current relationship. So you 18 00:01:44,160 --> 00:01:47,100 could take any of these seven pillars and apply it to your 19 00:01:47,100 --> 00:01:52,050 relationship. You can use it with a scale, just kind of see 20 00:01:52,140 --> 00:01:57,360 where your relationship scaling can be considering this topic in 21 00:01:57,360 --> 00:02:01,680 mind, and this is how you can Sort of understanding your 22 00:02:01,680 --> 00:02:07,710 relationship status currently and then start working on you 23 00:02:07,710 --> 00:02:10,560 got to descend in every relationship in order to start 24 00:02:10,560 --> 00:02:15,570 improving it.

First you have to identify the problem and how do 25 00:02:15,570 --> 00:02:18,780 you identify the problem if you are not even aware if the 26 00:02:18,780 --> 00:02:22,440 problem exists. So, the first step of course, is to start 27 00:02:22,470 --> 00:02:26,100 observing your relationship. So, you actually have to have a 28 00:02:26,100 --> 00:02:33,210 desire, a want or, or a need, actually to improve your 29 00:02:33,210 --> 00:02:37,710 relationship, you somehow you unsatisfied, for example, and 30 00:02:38,190 --> 00:02:42,120 natural desire to change something arose. So where do you 31 00:02:42,120 --> 00:02:45,840 start? Firstly, to observe this really cheap venue, of course, 32 00:02:45,840 --> 00:02:49,650 we need to educate yourself on what kind of tools for 33 00:02:49,650 --> 00:02:52,920 diagnosing this relationship we can have. And then of course, 34 00:02:52,920 --> 00:02:56,640 there are tools to improve the relationship and their scales 35 00:02:56,640 --> 00:02:58,950 and stuff to just you can understand where you can 36 00:02:58,950 --> 00:03:02,340 possibly get so You're here now and you can get there.

How do 37 00:03:02,340 --> 00:03:06,270 you get there that guy and this tool? Simple, right? But for 38 00:03:06,270 --> 00:03:08,790 many people, for some reason, it's confusing and the process 39 00:03:08,790 --> 00:03:14,280 is the same as for any other area of life. No more, no less. 40 00:03:14,340 --> 00:03:20,940 It's, it's a very basic process. So first identify the weak spots 41 00:03:20,970 --> 00:03:27,690 in your relationship, and then those people.

Okay, so we 42 00:03:27,690 --> 00:03:33,450 decided to give you seven main topics. And we're going to start 43 00:03:33,900 --> 00:03:37,050 with the first one in the next video for so I'm going to make a 44 00:03:37,230 --> 00:03:41,940 separate video for each topic, just so we can talk about it 45 00:03:41,940 --> 00:03:46,770 separately and maybe even give you a special assignment 46 00:03:46,920 --> 00:03:53,100 concerning that special, pure special area of your